in the interest of saying 'in the interest of saying', I should note, as book received, one other by Eileen Tabios: Ménage à Trois with the 21st Century (2004), from Jukka-Pekka Kervinen's xPress(ed). you can find a section of it, along with many other ebooks, here. I'm really psyched to have these 3 books by Eileen, picking my way thru.